我媽嫌我醜,我該怎麼辦?

長得醜該怎麼辦?來看看Quora網友的神回覆。

獲得2.5k好評的回答@Syed Rizvi:

I'd rather have a beautiful heart than a beautiful face. I’m really sorry you feel ugly but you have to realise everyone is beautiful in their own ways. Ignorant people won't look beyond your face and they are not worth your time. Intelligent people will see you for who you are. Your traits, hobbies and opinions. So focus on those aspects of life, make sure you get good at them.

我覺得心靈美臉蛋美更重要,你覺得自己不美對此我很難過,但是你要意識到,每個人各有各的美。那些以貌取人的無知者不值得你浪費時間聰明人會從你的特點、愛好以及見解來判斷你這個人,而非外表。所以專注於你的內在吧,讓你的內在變得更美。

獲得559好評的回答@Susannah Laker:

Asthetically “beautiful” people are in the minority, the majority of us are NOT beautiful. If you stop & think about it, just how many beauties do you actually know? You will probably come across not many, so if you fall into this category…. Welcome to the world of most of the human race.

審美標準評判相貌出衆的人畢竟是少數,我們大部分人也不過相貌平平。你且想一想,自己又認識多少美女呢?所以如果你長得不漂亮,歡迎來到普通人世界

獲得658好評的回答@Dominic Dannies:

99% of the people are grumpy, sad, moody or experience even depressing thoughts on a permanent level. Why? Because they have those self-destructive thoughts which circulate in infinte patterns: I am too fat, stupid, ugly …

世界上百分之99的人長期暴躁、悲傷、性情多變,甚至抑鬱。爲什麼呢?因爲他們有這種自暴自棄的想法:我太胖、太笨、太醜……讓他們陷入了惡性循環。

獲得757好評的回答@Joyce Frankel:

As you get older you will understand that it does not take a beautiful face to be very attractive and appealing. That comes from self-confidence, the understanding that you are someone unique.

等你再年長一些你就會明白,讓人着迷的不是一張漂亮的臉蛋兒,而是你的自信滿滿,你的獨一無二。